The story of my angel Gabriel
One year ago today, we lost our dog Gabriel. Had he made it through last summer, he would have been 19 years old. I bought him on New Years’ day with Christmas money. I was 7 months pregnant with my firstborn. I always told Gabe he was my “first...Continue reading 19 Comments »
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Empathy for Rheumatoid Arthritis Support
Empathy for Rheumatoid Arthritis: Zero to 60 in 15 Seconds
Wouldn't it be great if someone could understand how we're doing and have empathy for rheumatoid arthritis? Imagine describing how RA makes you feel in 15 seconds flat.
We lament the fact that there is a wide world out there that just “doesn’t get it.” My own world is the...Continue reading 3 Comments »
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Fun Ways to Fight Rheumatoid Arthritis with Nutrition
Rheumatoid Arthritis: Nutrition, Tickles, and Trunks
How do you make an elephant float? Two scoops of ice cream, root beer, and an elephant.
Sorry, not sorry, I know it’s corny. I’ve been telling that joke for almost 40 years and I still laugh. I’m incorrigible.
Is Rheumatoid Arthritis nutrition that easy? Well, if you’ve ever searched Rheumatoid Arthritis...Continue reading 16 Comments »
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Memorial Day Tribute from RA Warrior
Courage in the blood.
Today we remember the American servicemen who gave up their lives in order to protect our lives. We remember in humility and gratitude because we enjoy so much at their expense. We realize that we could probably not do what they have done in our behalf—and in our name—as Americans.
I am mindful...Continue reading 10 Comments »
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Two Causes of Rheumatoid Arthritis Site Reactions
2 kinds of site reactions
It’s been a week of site reactions. There were lots of positive reactions to the new blog site. After a few days, I realized that I was receiving two distinct flavors of responses.There have been those who were encouraging: "Nice article”; Good writing”; and “Well done!” I am so grateful.
Then there...Continue reading 23 Comments »
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Severe Rheumatoid Arthritis Can Leave You Stuck in Orbit
Severe Rheumatoid Arthritis can get you stuck.
We who live on the Space Coast follow the Space Shuttle like most towns follow their local high school football team. When there’s a launch, people run out into the yard, climb up on their roofs, and cheer like it’s July 4th. What are fireworks compared to a giant...Continue reading 18 Comments »
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Dr. Dolittle and the Rheumatoid Arthritis Specialist
Can a Rheumatoid Arthritis specialist be Dr. Dolittle?
I saw this great post on Facebook about how much people living with chronic illness need doctors who will listen. Mainly people with illnesses read that page, I think. How could we get doctors to read it, I wonder?
Something funny happened to me when I read it.
I hope you get...Continue reading 11 Comments »
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Managing Rheumatoid Arthritis: Transparency and the Wall
Managing Rheumatoid Arthritis with friends
This post is an answer to my dear friend from Oz:
She writes about wondering why, as a woman managing Rheumatoid Arthritis, I am usually so private about my health issues. She also praises me for "coming out" to write this blog. She wonders whether I had to overcome "false pride" as she did.
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Be Your Own Counselor with Rheumatoid Arthritis
Fighting the Depression of Rheumatoid Arthritis
It is great to have a friend. And sometimes professional counsel is necessary. But today I was thinking of some ways that we can fight the blues and be our own therapist.
Here are some ideas that I tried not to let get away...
1) Take Natural Medicine
No, the really natural kind:...Continue reading 17 Comments »
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RA left my glass half-full: Changing Rheumatoid Arthritis Medicines
I knew the glass was half-full from RA.
Two months ago, I could do about half of what I could do before RA. The doctors kept saying my Rheumatoid Arthritis should be getting even better. I really wanted that, too. The doses of my RA medications were as high as they could go: Humira weekly (that's a...Continue reading 8 Comments »
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Rheumatoid Arthritis can make you patient
Hating Rheumatoid Arthritis
Rheumatoid Arthritis is this mean and evil disease. But you can't hate it because hate only tears up the hater. Hate never hurts the target, so I learned a long time ago that forgiveness is the healthiest way to live. However, forgiving RA doesn't make it go away...
There is no cure for Rheumatoid...Continue reading 10 Comments »
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