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Beautiful. I love this.
Hi Kelly really enjoyed ur article. I have been listening to everybody to talk about the reason for the season. Christ,s birth. Not hearing it from anyone. Why? Have they lost faith
? Surrounded by pain have we gave up? No not me. I’m ready. Without faith what’s left? I’m ready! Thanks and Merry Christmas to you and Your Family
You are right on!! That is exactly how I feel about Christmas. Thank you so much for putting my feelings into writing.
I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas and Happy New Year.
Kristi Law
I’m reading this while sitting in front of my superduper warm and toasty gas insert fireplace. And thinking “well, I wasn’t ready for Christmas this year — but by God I have a toasty warm gas insert fireplace and my stiff joints are feeling pretty good!” Best purchase we ever made.
I couldnt have said it better Miss Kelly.
Ready? As ready as I could be! Supplies for projects not completed will be stored for next year. Hope that Gingerbread House will make it to Christmas 2013! The cookies didn’t all get decorated but I think sugar sprinkles and snow men decorations will keep. The home made gifts that only made it half way to productions will have to wait too. Now I have to focus on returning the things that didn’t fit, or we received two of. Hope I can get that done in the 30 day time limit, otherwise, those things will be regifted or donated to churches for next Christmas. Letting go of the perfect Christmas is hard for this type A girl but I’m learning! Now if I can find enough energy to take the tree down and store the decorations before Valentines day, I’ll have it made! And if I don’t? Oh, well! Then my house will just be festive as long as those things are up! But now it’s time for a nap! Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas to all you RA Warriors out there!
Thank you Kelly, for a very moving article. And for great perspective.
Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas!
Thank you for this reminder. We had a Christmas this year that did NOT go as planned – a lot of my family members got hit with the flu bug, and I had a MAJOR flare-up with my RA and was miserable the entire time. But in the end, it is all about Him – and that is what we must focus on.
I was “ready” in terms of presents, not in terms of food and definitely not ready to tackle two grown up kids and a fiancee we had never met in the house for over a week! My daughter only made it here for the day. Boxing Day was at my sisters house, more stress and people. Now I’m relaxing, ignoring the pain in my hands as I type and reminding myself to be grateful my kids wanted to be home with us. Next year I’ll let them help me instead of trying to be “normal” My mum used to tell me that God never gave you anything he didn’t think you could cope with, so I take comfort in that. Hope everyone enjoyed their Christmas.
Beautifully said, and I feel the same way. It always bothers me that people “judge” me for not doing things the way they do them or on their timetable. For instance I didn’t get my tree up until a week before Christmas so I will leave it up until New Years instead of putting everything away the day after. I would never wish this disease on anyone but I do wish they could see it through my eyes.
My kids & I did it on the 23rd. It is a beautiful memory. I’m enjoying it with tears of joy in my eyes since my eldest left already today.
The tree will stay up through the 12 days of Christmas; comes down on Jan 6th traditionally.
NOTHING to judge you for! How can anyone say any one of us is “wrong” for how we celebrate something we love with people we love?
I do agree Connie – I wish they could just see it once through our eyes – that would bring change faster.
I can so relate to your wonderful story! I no longer cook the fudge and divinity, nor bake cookies, or pies. So thankful for store bought, even if it isn’t mine. I gave up earlier looking for that special tree, so will use our ceramic lighted one. The beloved tree ornaments will wait safely tucked away in the large totes. I somehow kept my cute singing toys packed in our spare closet, plus some other decorations that didn’t make it to the shed. I decorated, and using what I had it does look like Christmas. When I feel badly I stop and remember how blessed I am to have a roof over my head, food to eat and some family to be around. We celebrate Christmas on Christmas Eve, so ready or not is the life of an RA-er, and I think I am beginning to almost accept that! Merry Christmas to you and your family!
Merry Christmas, Robyn.